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Why Understanding Your Inner Parts Matters More Than 'Doing It Right' Have you ever heard a psychological strategy and thought, “Yes, that makes sense, so why can’t I just do it?” Or maybe you have tried a suggestion, found it helpful for a while and then slipped back into old patterns that feel oddly powerful or automatic. This experience is incredibly common. It is not because you lack willpower, motivation or insight. It is because many strategies speak to the thinking min